…you lay awake in bed at night contemplating the opportunity cost of all that silly fermented grape juice sitting in your cellar. Yeah…that happened a few nights ago. I was thinking many things, including the balance of my investment account with that money invested (and not spent on wine), the money that could’ve been invested in my family and activities with them, etc. etc. See what I mean? I haven’t had a great bottle with family or friends in what seems like a long, long time. WINE RUT
How would you complete that sentence? Have you been in one?
It is one of those things that happen, or don’t but looking for it won’t help and might actually hinder it.
You may try tasting out of your comfort zone. It has worked miracles for me. Another option is new friends but I would recommend to save that for a later option.
In all seriousness, relax. Don’t look back. Don’t contemplate numbers. No good will come out of that. Go into a retail shop and engage someone knowledgeable about something you know zero of. Italy? France? South America? I don’t know your drinking proclivities so forgive me. If it ain’t happening, make it happen.
I think this kind of thing happens with any hobby, not just wine. There are peaks and valleys. There are times when you enjoy it more than you thought possible and times when you question everything. Hang in there. Perhaps take a break, enjoy some beer or cocktails and spicy food and come back with renewed enthusiasm.
I’ve been in several ruts. Each time I come out of the rut, I’m never quite as fully intrigued as I was prior. I think this could be due to not being local with my core group of wine friends, so the desire isn’t there as much. I’ve reduced cellar by rough a third, and truly wouldn’t mind reducing another third. While I enjoy having the wine, I would rather have the money for other things.
When that wine that was a revelation a few years ago and you bought cases of, now is being handed out to friends and will never be purchased again. Yes, I am talking about rose’.
Funny, I’ve never been in a wine rut. It’s a lifestyle, part of my daily existence, not really what I would call a hobby. I enjoy drinking wine alone, with my wife and with my friends. I never second-guess money spent, you could almost do that with anything. My bike. My new car. My kid’s college. My wife’s jewelry. Spend within your means on all things, balancing daily enjoyment with investment for the future.
I see wine as more of a binder between people instead of the focus of a get together. That staves off the burn out you feel in other hobbies.
Wine is also a relaxation aid at the end of my day. It’s not about the alcohol although the relatively small amount (compared to whiskey or hard liquor) does help since it’s a sedative.
I agree with every word of this (except for the new car part. I’m hoping my trusty '94 Landcruiser will last until we don’t need to own cars anymore. Though if I do break down and buy a new car, I won’t regret it.)
If you have a well-balanced cellar, there’s always something there that hits your sweet spot when dinner time rolls around. If you’re in a rut, you’re probably buying the wrong wines.
Great posts so far. I think, as I reflect, I’m realizing I enjoy wine that is properly aged that wine drunk young. Just even a few years back, I liked younger wines more. As a result, I’m buying wine today and laying it down and not drinking much of it. Money goes out, wine comes back, but gets laid down and not enjoyed. It almost feels like money flying out the door with no “return.” I think it’s as much a result of a lull while my cellar ages. All that, or I haven’t had any THC!