Napa cab is my first love. Those that know me can attest. However, like most drinkers on this board, it is fun to drink all sorts of wine. My wife really likes her cab, so even though I may offer up a nice Syrah/Rhone Blend or Pinot, she’ll silently let me know that is not what she would prefer.
Therefore I find myself “cheating” on her a bit by drinking all of the other fun wine that we buy.
Anyone else ever find themselves in similar situations?
Obviously it’s not ‘cheating’ in any form, but you MIGHT get in trouble of the special wine is something she is looking forward to, and you have only one of. When Jen’s not here, I know I have free reign over the ‘poop and dirt’ wines (basically, anything Old World in style or origin, even just a little bit)
When my wife is out for the evening and I’m home with the kids, it’s usually Steak and Bordeaux night. Or Steak and Loire Cab Franc night.
She’s starting to gain some appreciation of those, but they’re never near the top of her list, so solo nights are when I seek those out.
Not only is it not cheating, I think it’s more considerate of her to save wines she loves for when she’s sharing them, and to drink things that don’t interest her very much when I’m alone. Guzzling a bottle of her favorite wine by yourself would be more of a cheating move.
Oh hell yes, I go old Burgundy everytime when I am going solo. I feel it’s a good thing for her anyways, so she doesn’t have to listen to me waxing poetic about things pathetic and fawning all night over a damn bottle of wine.
I’m inclined to go deep as well, but as Chris said I will avoid anything that she really likes, or typically anything we have purchased together when in wine country. Which leaves all the tooth enamel-stripping whites and stinky French reds for me.
I mean…she’d probably prefer you stay home and take down a killer bottle of wine by yourself as opposed to going out drinking somewhere with your boys where you may or may not be tempted to end the night at one of your towns finer (or not so fine) gentleman’s establishments.