Stony Hill - although I would argue they are possibly more known for their white wines than cab
Smith Madrone
Matthiasson - Steve’s wines are phenomenal and his cab and merlot and Bordeaux style “red” are all what I would consider old school
There may be a few others but these come to mind immediately.
I have done the Library tasting there and enjoyed it very much. Note that Montelena also has a place at a hotel in SF where they do tastings, so you can taste their wines in SF as well.
Matthiasson is another great suggestion! I attended their member pickup party once as a +1 and was impressed by the wines and the vineyards. Thanks for reminding me, it was a great visit!
Tulocay. I’ve never visited the winery, but I’ve had the wines and they are definitely old school. I only wish they were more available here on the East Coast.
The web page indicates that the tasting fees (and probably the philosophy) meet your guidelines.
Forman, Corison, BV (get BV’s separate clonal tasting menu, it’s in a separate building from their main tasting room.) At most you are looking at $25-50 per person for these tastings. Forman is more of a “free” tasting where they hope you will purchase, but their wines are so good (and so relatively cheap) that such is hardly a sacrifice. Clos Du Val has a brand new indoor-outdoor tasting room, old-school history and better wines than ever.