This is exactly the right exercise IMHO. I love the Drouhin Amoureuses, but the price difference between that and the 1er cru Chambolle these days is much greater than the qualitative difference due to the rarity/fame factor. It actually plays in both directions here because I think most non-designated 1er cru bottlings are undervalued compared to all single vineyard versions- regardless of the fame of the single vineyard version- and Drouhin makes one of the finest Chambolle 1er crus of them all.
Anyhow- that is the best way I know of to decide if you really love Amoureuses enough to pay the premium it commands these days.
As for Amoureuses in general- I love it because the examples I consider the finest (Roumier, Drouhin and Jadot) have both the incredible level of breed and detail of a grand cru, but also a generous dose of slightly unruly sauvage and general earthiness that make them very approachable and also quite versatile with food. While a great Amoureuses can be a fine partner with a grand dinner- I personally prefer to savor it over a simple boeuf bourguignon or steak frites.
For my palate, Roumier and Drouhin make the greatest versions as they have a perfect combo of the dueling ideals I note above. Jadot comes closely after, very closely, being a tad more stern and classic on the palate but aromatically just as great.
The other versions I have tried- including most notably Groffier and Mugnier- just are not as exciting to me. They are bigger and more polished, which aids them in large wine tastings, but for a simple setting dedicated to the wine itself they are just not quite as interesting as my favorites.
Roumier in the US has long been the most difficult to obtain. Even back in the glory days of the mid 90s to early 2000s when I got a case of Bonnes Mares and 4 Musigny every year- I never got more than 3 Amoureuses and usually just 1 or 2. Others had to come from the secondary market. And back then Amoureuses was priced about the same as Bonnes-Mares, $80-200ish over that period of time, while Musigny was at least 50% higher. I suspect the price difference means more Amoureuses stayed in Europe as back then the wines were considered qualitatively similar (which they are- Musigny’s advantage being sheer scale if one cares more for that attribute) leaving Musigny a bit pricey and Amoureuses rather a steal.
Point being, the wine has always been scarce and in the current market it will be nearly impossible to get in with a merchant who is going to sell it at a standard markup. There are merchants who still do- but I imagine that waiting list is longer than Screaming Eagle. So unless you are in for $3K+ a bottle, best to just skip it altogether- especially since the high trading frequency of the wine these days means bottles in circulation are inherently more risky.
The Jadot version is wonderful and even at the $400ish I paid for the 2020, one of the best deals in Burgundy, but it can be perilous to open a Jadot of this caliber young as even at release the wine can be very tight. All the more risky with Amoureuses since the wine relies more on aromatics than volume as its hallmark. So your best bet is to find an older bottle- I would say 2008 or prior to be safe. I was actually going to check in on the 2012 this spring, a spectacular vintage for Jadot, but a recently very tight bottle of one of their Beaunes has me thinking the Amoureuses might need another 5-10 years before checking in. The 2020 might be showing well- I am considering giving that one a try- but I need to try some more entry level wines first and would suggest you do the same if you go that route with Amoureuses.
That leaves the Drouhin and I can tell you the 2017 is absolutely spectacular and was showing beautifully not too long ago. This is the one I would most heartily recommend right now unless you have access to a 2008 or older version at a good price that is well provenanced. The 2014 is surprisingly restrained at the moment and not one I would suggest. Any other young vintage is likely shut down at this point except maybe the 2020 which is $800+ this year, a record release price and $150 more than the 2017.
All IMHO- there are many who will disagree quite strongly with my rankings of this wine’s primary producers.