I also agree with the Arneis idea…and the tomato issue. In fact, I’d leave the tomato out completely. Anna Del Conte, my fav italian cookbook author, has a recipe for Osso Buco Milanese Style that uses no tomato and uses white wine (and Gremolada).
Yes, exactly. I have seen it stated that way, but as you point out, it not the same grape. It is from the same place and sometimes inter-plnated with Nebbiolo, from what I gather. Still a fine pairing with Osso Bucco for white drinkers.
While I wince at the “white wine only” crowd, I would consider a traditional white Rioja as an option. Also, someone alluded to the Alsatian reliance on Pinot Gris for rich meat and poultry dishes, and I think a good Pinot Gris with some bottle age would work well.
I completely agree. I particularly think this is true at things like Thanksgiving dinner, where wine people obsess over what unusual wines go most optimally with the food being served, when they probably should be giving more thought to what wines would be enjoyed by the people who are going to attend.