Francois…
“stubborn” is not the right word. Convinced of something without any proof is more precise.
I believe your experience…and its breadth. I just became convinced many years before I heard your name that opening a bottle and letting it sit open for a period (I am presuming less than a day) does nothing much…nothing harmful…and nothing meaningful.
And…I certainly believe that the first sip can be different; after all the tiny portion of the wine at the top that is exposed to oxygen (and outflow) is undoubtedly affected, maybe even perceptibly. But…since that bottle was not popped and poured and a popped and poured bottle was not “slow oxed”…and, by definition can’t be both, I don’t know how one tells.
I am unwilling to abandon my long held beliefs until I have reason. I don’t think that is stubborn; the opposite is “foolish”.
You believe what you believe…and I have NO doubt that you have wonderful experiences after using your methods…and that others do, too. I just question whether the “slow ox” contributes to them…or…never disturbing them by pouring them out into a decanter…or just popping and pouring…would be an equally good experience. In other words, is the slow ox even a significant variable in what it does to the wine…or is is what it doesn’t do to the wine: disturb it or, perhaps, expose it to significant aeration? I am all ears and have been for decades.
More evidence of your experiences, though, is like the guy yelling louder and louder to a deaf person…as in the video I posted. It doesn’t add anything to the communication.
You seem to feel that I doubt your views or your experiences. I don’t…
The people in ancient Greece had lots of stories about Zeus and other things from Delphi. When I was on my honeymoon there in 1983 (later that trip to Alsace and Bourgogne), I had lots of trouble distinguishing between the mythological and the concrete when our guides spoke of Zeus and his friends as if they were “facts”. Since then, I have been particularly careful to understand the distinctions-- and ironically , I “fell” for Burgundy wines on that trip…and had my first lesson on “aeration” at the end of our long trip. In Paris my wife’s close friends told me that Bordeaux need decanting and Burgundies should be poured directly from the bottle into the glass, shortly after opening them. But, no one could explain why. So, I asked for more and more Burgundy…as they seemed to honor it less…and I liked it a lot more. When I got home, I was hooked. And, it seemed Burgundy required a lot less effort, too…no decanting.
And, then there is the movie (“The Idiot”) where Steve Martin’s character thinks he is being fooled by being sold “old” wines. the jerk - wine scene - YouTube
Some people on this board seem to believe that the benefits of allowing potentially great wines to age to be “myth” even. They slaughter large numbers of infant wines at one setting to disprove the “myth”. Mon Dieu!!