We had 3 no-shows at our offline in PDX last night. Fortunately, it didnât drive costs up substantially for those who came as we said we would. I think this is the first time weâve had that many fail to show up for an offline.
In order to prevent no-shows, Iâd suggest PMâing the folks that signed up (at least 1 week prior) to remind them about the O/L. Sadly, this is a problem with events on all bulletin boards.
As one of the âno showsâ for the PDX offline, I can say that coordination of confirmations and level of commitment is something I assumed would be SOP. I apologize for my part in the communication break down. I hope to meet the folks from PDX at a get together soon to see what I missed!
Ed
Iâd go further. Get peoplesâ email addresses and use evite, Pingg or similar to manage the invites. Iâve not kept up with Evite (I use Pingg) but most of these will let you see at a glance the status of invites (whoâs replied, whoâs not, etc) and will automate the sending of reminders. The board is a great way to get interest etc, but once you have a list an invite service will be much better.
Ed - once someoneâs accepted, I always assume itâs THIER responsibility to note it on their calendar and come. The invite service I use does an automated reminder, but I donât chase people. If youâve said âYesâ itâs up to you to manage your calendar.
Iâd assume he means Standard Operating Procedure.
Beyond financial issues, no-shows (without appropriate warning) can hurt a tasting/offline in other ways. I organized a vertical of Gruaud-L a few years ago, we had covered every major (and many middling) vintages from '66-2001. As I was leaving office # 5 PM to get on the train a participant emailed me to say âoh, Iâm actually out of state, canât make it.â He was supposed to be bringing the 1985, which several of us owned, but no one could retrieve on such notice.
Ed,
I was a partial host for this last OL. I have put together many OL through different boards, along with Steven. Saying that, I have never reconfirmed with anyone if they were coming or not. It never has been an issue or implied resonsibility. If someone says they are coming, I wouldnât assume otherwise. Obviously in this case, it just lowered the attendance. Though if there would have been a waiting list, I probably would have different thoughts. I donât think that Shane or I had any lapse in communication. In the future, if you change your mind or donât want to go you just have to post it. There arenât ever hard feelings, I have even had to cancel before after putting one together.
Travis, I understand your point and Iâm in general agreement. My failure to communicate effectively in my post #99 and my belief that there was a waiting list (post #100 & others) resulted in my volunteering to be a âno-showâ to make room for someone else. My post was not interpreted by the group as I intended. Thinking I had communicated my change, I never gave âde-listingâ or the off-line another thought. Due to the drawbacks of e-communications and the failings of folks like me, I find that confirmations of some type work best. That was my motivation for the comment.
I hope to make it another time.
Regards, Ed
Angel Vine
I work it a little differently. Since the restaurant has given me the privilege of BYOB when it isnât legal here in most cases, I try harder to match my reservation. There is no problem when I reserve for 12 and four drop out WITH NOTIFICATION, I just adjust the number attending BEFORE THE EVENT. I do feel badly if the table is set for eight and only five show up though. SO! I keep in touch with those attending more frequently though the boards and by e-mail in some cases.