Very interesting thread, and really interesting replies. Dan, I am confused if you are objecting to paying to spend time at the winery with a key member, or simply asking to provide a cc number (maybe in the event you did not show ) ?
Think of it this way, you are expecting to spend time with the “Winemaker”, recieve the inside scoop, perhaps bbl taste, might you also be expected to compensate the winery for the above and beyond treatment ? In particular if the winemaker made it a point to open time in their day, then for whatever reason you missed your appointment ? Keep in mind that while people in the wine industry generally love sharing the passion, they too have a long list of tasks to accomplish each day and each time they have a guest, that just makes them work harder to get the tasks completed.
Before anyone rushes to judge, I love sharing what I do with our guests, but also have been around long enough to realize that there are only so many hours in a day, and I have to be selective about where I can and can’t spend my time. If I am available, or my staff, we are more than happy to share what we do, open the inner doors and roll out the red carpet, however, sometimes it probably makes sense to do what this winery is asking of you. I would suspect that your cc would only be charged in the event of a no-show, realizing that most places waive the fee if you purchase, and given that you want to spend time with them, you probably already know you enjoy the wine - so really a somewhat of a non-issue.
You also mentioned that it might be beneficial for the winery to host your visit as you have the potential to post something positive on the web - which could create some interest. While I suppose that is true, keep in mind the winery really has no idea who you are, (You too Scott) other than someone that wants an appointment. To those folks who chimed in about not paying a tasting fee, the reality of what happens in tasting rooms, wineries can often be a bit different than what you may think.
A few examples:
I have one tour person who insists that each group he brings in, are VIP’s and I must open ALL of my best wines (expensive) for them. 9 times out of 10 these people are pretty much clueless and are just as happy with our off dry whites, as the 7 - 10 year old reds. He will actually tell me in front of his guests WHICH wines to open, trying to force me to open the spendy items they have no interest in, then follow up later in the visit with asking for a discount.
A group books an afternoon (45 people) for a nice birthday winetasting event. We spend time making sure all the details are attended to, bring in extra staff, work with them on food - you get the idea. 10 minutes AFTER they are to arrive, we get a call from the winery they were just at, and informed that they were asked to leave for a variety of reasons, including insulting the other guests, throwing up in the parking lot, peeing in the creek along with being intoxicated and rude. Upon thier arrival we heard them before they arrived, it sounded like a Frat party. We made the decision that they were too large of a liability to even let off the bus. So as they left, I was called a number of things and darn it all - I did not have a cc on file to bill them, so we ate the entire cost.
We have an event a few times a year with live music, great food and most of our wines are open - and I get a call from a group of 6 making an appointment. They ask if I can waive the fee for the group, so I do. Shortly after they arrive, one of them is throwing up in our main room, while another is making a mess in the bathroom, while yet another is tossing her cookies in the car - again, silly me, I didnt have a cc on file.
We do charge a tasting fee and waive it if they purchase - this fee probably only covers our labor cost while we eat the cost of the wine… which is fine, as it’s great exposure and gives us a chance to interact with our customers. I would suspect that unless you are on the tour in a large wine center such as Napa, and your tasting room is an important revenue line, this is close to actual for many wineries.
If we have a guest that lets us know they interact on the web, and know one of us from there, we will always welcome them ( no charge ). Similar to inviting an old friend into your home, you offer the best you have. However, someone simply making an appointment to taste tells us very little… we cannot be expected to know that person is a winophile or simply someone looking to kill an afternoon between meetings.
Hope this makes some sense, and if you like the winery you booked the time with, heck go, have a great time. If you end up paying for it, but created some good memories, then I suspect you would think that was money well spent.
Have fun !