Paul - I’m not one to school somms no matter their stature - was just responding to language used in earlier post.
The thread sort of went beast-mode when some words from Kelli were quoted that seemed condescending toward the BYO crowd. They were condescending, IMO, but it’s a condescension that’s common to somms, I believe, and it’s probably somewhat necessary given what their job entails and how their role is compensated.
Then Bill Klapp came with knowledge - I won’t be schooling him either - and someone else claimed that the discussion reeked of gender bias. Yeah, no - super-somm fatigue, maybe.
Anyway, I like somms and ITB folks of all rank, sex, and demeanor. They’re on a quest and want nothing more than to bring high net worth individuals along. In the end, these conversations are quite entertaining and informative.