Parker’s first appearance on the internet was back on the old Prodigy computer system. His claim to be the first internet wine blogger is probably correct. He posted almost every day (mainly answering questions from subscribers.) We called him “god” (note the little g)
But it soon became clear that:
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He viewed the world in black and white. Either you agreed with him or you were the enemy. (I made the enemies list very quickly.) This pattern is well document in the biography, “The Emperor of Wine.”
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He couldn’t simply say, I disagree with you. He had to make it an insult. He’d say something like you don’t agree with me because you have a squeeky clean California palate.
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We saw a lot of his anger and disdain back then–not so much publicly as via private e mails (something Prodigy allowed) Such notes were treated as private. He got so bad with me, I finally told him that anything he sent me I would consider public and post it. The nasty notes stopped.
I have a friend who is a shrink. When asked what happens to people as they get older, he has a two word response, “More so.” None of Parker’s jabs and barbs on the Asia trip should come as a shock to anyone. It is just “more so” of what we saw years ago.