I’m sure you will get plenty of disagreement – hopefully all delivered gracefully.
While the idea that “wine is just a beverage” is true for the vast majority of the drinking public (in large part due to what they are drinking) at some point I hope any wine drinker can experience the epiphany most on this board have during our wine lives that tell us wine is so much more than “just a beverage.”
Though I’m not ITB I’ve hosted formal tastings for groups of people largely new to wine. Wine can be intimidating and many newbies think they are supposed to both experience the great depth and wax poetically about a wine the way more experienced drinkers do. To help them appreciate where they are in this journey and what they should reasonably take-away from the tasting I talk about my own reactions to wine at various stages of drinking and learning about wine.
At the early stages for myself and many people they like wine, it tastes good, maybe makes them feel sophisticated, and gets them drunk. Success. It’s where the vast majority of the public are and will remain. It encompasses all of the social fellowship advantages you mention which has more to do with the company and circumstances than the actual beverage that is being consumed. They can range from the complete beginner ordering a glass “house white wine” at a beer-smelling, sports bar to the upper-bound exemplified by Jack (the TV actor best friend) from the movie Sideways. He can taste and appreciate great wines but it doesn’t do much for him beyond enhancing the party and his mood. The gum chewing seen (“tastes good to me!”) scene is perfection.
But if the wine drinker cares to, and there is nothing wrong if they don’t care to, pay closer attention to what they are drinking and understand some of the nuances that go into one wine versus the other based on factors like grape selection, terroir, vintage, climate, barrel choice, etc. wine has the possibility of being something far more beyond just a beverage. Hopefully anyone who wants to understand why people wax poetically (and spend irrational amounts of money) on wine hit this next stage and have that epiphany I mentioned above. For me a great wine transports me to locations and times past recalling the circumstances, locations, and people all from the smells and tastes. It is memories and tastings that can be savored and recalled with every sip. Few other beverages can achieve this experience.
Last night I drank a 2001 Chateau Musar and I was immediately transported from my home in Charlotte, NC back a decade to a restaurant (The Lion) in Greenwich Village, NYC when I introduced the wine to a beautiful woman on date. Everything about the wine last night was delicious – the smoky notes on the wine balanced against memories of the dark and wooded bar entrance to the restaurant – as were the memories of a fantastic date during a wonderful time in NYC. A great many wines achieve that for me. Aged Mondavi takes me back to their tasting room, a beautiful South African red blend takes me back to the beautiful grounds at Delaire Graff, etc.
Not everyone is as fortunate to experience wine that way but I try to introduce many interesting wines to people in hopes even a little of what I enjoy may creep into their experiences. For most wine will remain just a beverage but with some intellectual investment, patience, and time wine can be so much more.
Cheers to your journey.