When going into uncharted territory sparklers are my default option, so I would pick the Cali sparkler from your list. If you feel like venturing out to Total, Cava might be an even better choice - the last time I checked they had Raventos, which is very good and very versatile. Total also has a fine selection of Finger Lakes rieslings, which are also a good option. Ravines on the higher end and Standing Stone on the lower end should both work. Absent more information on what the spice will be like, I would stay away from the heavy reds.
I know this wasnt part of the question but if she wants to cut back on carbs, take out the spaghetti and alcohol. These 2 components have a lot of carbs. Go water.
Rose is my first choice, not one of the really pale ones, a darker one with some oomph. Spain, Italy and Greece do this style well.
If red, either Zinfandel or Petite Sirah.
If dry white, Alsace Pinot Gris.
If off-dry white, German Nahe Riesling Kabinett… halbtrocken would be good.
Not sure about bubbly… Cali sparkler can be anything from august Schrambsberg to Andre (joke.). But if bubbly, I would go with something mid-range, relatively young and fresh, not real Champagne. From California, Mirabelle (a less expensive product of Schramsberg) sounds about right.