There’s no simple answer here. So, I’d say: If the tasters are experienced wine drinkers (and this matters, for the perception of the varied flavors of varied ages of wine takes some palate education), then they will very likely be able to perceive the differences between the best aged wines and the best young wines. As to which would be ‘better’ - that is entirely a matter of entirely subjective taste and personal preference.
If you gathered folks from this board for this blind tasting, the aged wines would probably ‘win’ because people here tend to appreciate aged wines. A random sample of people found in a wine store would likely yield a different result.
Since you’re a wine maker, my (non-wine maker) POV is I hope a wine maker is thinking about intentionality. What kind of wine do you intend to make? What style, ageability, market, etc. are your targets? What are your budget, philosophy and materials at hand? What flavors and wines do you love? To me, a good wine maker is one who can hit the mark she/he shoots at. Given the budget and time, I’m sure you can find the vineyard location, grape variety, wine making materials, and information from your peers to try to make what you want.