What Do You Say To Some People, Part 2

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What Do You Say To Some People, Part 2

Post #1  Postby Richard Leland » October 12th 2011, 3:37pm

So a woman comes into the store this afternoon and she looks very much like an old customer of ours we haven't seen for a while. Too young to actually be that customer and too old to be that customer's daughter. She greets me warmly and the moment I hear her voice I know that it is our old customer, just looking at least 15 years younger - the result, I'm sure, of some very well done plastic surgery.

What's the protocol in that situation? Do I complement her on her youthful appearance or do I keep my mouth shut?
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Re: What Do You Say To Some People, Part 2

Post #2  Postby Rick Gregory » October 12th 2011, 3:55pm

Guys....

"Wow, been awhile since we've seen you in here...You look great" or similar. No need to say "did you have plastic surgery" etc. Just compliment her on how she looks if you want to and it's appropriate.

Note... "You look great" NOT "You look younger" or "Damn, you don't look as old as you used to..."
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Re: What Do You Say To Some People, Part 2

Post #3  Postby Bob Wood » October 12th 2011, 5:41pm

"How much did you pay for those?"
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Post #4  Postby David K o l i n » October 12th 2011, 5:51pm

"WTF happened to you?"

(Actually, I agree with the "You look great")
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Post #5  Postby Cris Whetstone » October 12th 2011, 10:05pm

Does she drink Rombauer? Mollydooker?
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Post #6  Postby Terence T-Bone Livingston » October 13th 2011, 10:38am

"Good to have you back. What are you drinking these days?"


(just hope she still has some coin to spend on wine!)
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Re: What Do You Say To Some People, Part 2

Post #7  Postby Richard Leland » October 13th 2011, 1:38pm

Terence T-Bone Livingston wrote: (just hope she still has some coin to spend on wine!)

That's a very good point. Maybe I should have asked for the name of her plastic surgeon -I'm sure he/she has plenty of money to spend on wine!
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Re: What Do You Say To Some People, Part 2

Post #8  Postby Bob Hunnicutt » October 13th 2011, 5:33pm

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